How to Handle Relationship Fights
When you fight with the person you love the most, you probably feel like your whole world is falling apart. And when you can’t seem to reach a conclusion and the fight just gets bigger and bigger and it seems like you will never be able to resolve things, you can feel like you’re going to go insane. Whatever feelings you may feel, fighting with your significant other can be one of the worst things to go through.
We all know those fights when it just goes on for hours and we don’t even know why it started, but it brought up every nasty event from the past. And we just keep piling it on, piling it on until we are out of life for a week.
Can you prevent these fights? Well, sure. If we always have love and kindness in our hearts and actions and have no ego then nothing like this can happen. But is this humanly possible? Probably, for some people, but us mere mortals have to face the consequences of our ego-filled actions.
It’s normal to argue with the person you share your life and your heart with. It’s even normal to go a little insane sometimes. But what we have to learn is how to let go of it afterwards and find our way back to the love in our hearts.
After shouting your lungs out, hurting the other and being hurt yourself, you’re exhausted. You’re tired and you just want things to be “good” again. But what you don’t see then is that you need some “bad” in order to be able to experience the “good”. If everything was always fine, than would you truly be happy? What makes a relationship strong is going through struggles together, facing them together, forgiving each other and forgetting, and remembering the love that you have for each other in your hearts. Read more»
(via How to Handle Relationship Fights | The Miracle Forest)